To be abused as a child by your mother is dehumanizing.
Check out my interview on the Project Real Love Podcast with Joy Mpezeni, discussing toxic mother-daughter relationships!!!!
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If you make self-fulfillment a goal and fill yourself you won't have the capacity for your mother's toxicity. Nor will you be desperate for her crumbs.
Ask yourself, what do you want, expect, demand, even beg from your mother?
That is what you fill yourself up with and that is how you brea…
Some daughters would rather feel pain from their abusive mother because if they didn't accept that, they would feel nothing at all from her. A sad truth to settle for less because you value your mother more than you value yourself, while she doesn't value you at all.
You ain't gotta set yours…
You followed her rules.
Took their advice.
Honored your mother even when she dishonored herself, you, and motherhood
Been a passive participant in your life, an accessory to your own abuse by sacrificing yourself in the name of being a good daughter.
Your resiliency has bee…
